Trapped With No Way Out - Ill Effects Of Child Abuse


A young victim has written a story about the effects of her abusive father and has used rap music as an outlet to express her pain and suffering. This is how she copes with her abuse.

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If we really care about Black men protecting the children, using that very same logic, a lot of mothers with give full parental custody over of their child to their biological fathers and there would not be hardly any case issues of estranged stepfathers, sick uncles, strangers and rebound revolving boyfriends molesting them nor would there be an increase in child abuse cases by mostly single parent BW. As well as most Black children who do tell their fathers ,that they have been touched inappropriately automatically listen to their childs concerns, instead of doubting them, like some these mothers be doing to them,just because their new boyfriend pays the rent,lay pipe down good or pays her car notes!!!! Sorry I don’t do fake outrage when facts are facts.

It’s all a hustle and perpetuates broken homes. Win win for the system. Don’t expect anything to change.

If dads wanted kids to live with them so bad how come it's more grand parents got kids than dads? How come when mothers are messed up or in jail the kids be in foster care?

Black children, experience abuse,in some cases death,and molestation at the hands of their mother’s known acquaintances (ie boyfriends,pastors,step-fathers,and male friends). Black fathers who are involved in abuse of their child is around 22% while Black mothers involved in abuse of their child is around 70% because of the company and acquitances in who they let b around their children.

Children are sexually abused by mother’s acquittances and studied stats have been presented to you to see it for yourself,that family sexual molestation only represent 34%,while mother’s acquaintance of child abuses represent 59%!

I may call this ineffective if someone is not sitting down with him having an adult conversation about what his actions mean and constantly reinforcing the "why" of why he shouldn't have done what he did. Kids are logical and they crave to understand. Simply beating the child is ineffective unless it is a last resort to stubborn behavior. I am not against beatings but they have to be common sense beatings and when a parent beats their child out of anger, they are reinforcing negative behavior and attitude.

Whipping a child is not necessarily child abuse if it's an intellectual decision. The abuse comes into play usually when it is done as an emotional act versus being disciplinary.

I say some kids are stubborn and will try the hell out of their parents. And a parent always needs to be in control of their kids. If a parent loses control of their kids, then they have failed them. If someone is saving your life is that child abuse? No I disagree vehemently with that. I know plenty of adults who are very happy that someone beat them to help keep them in line because they knew that they would not have conformed any other way. In fact, I hate hearing stories where our children become men and say they wish someone cared enough to give them beatings.

My momma use to beat me with a cord and today I can say I DON'T have a jail RECORD, never been shot or stab, finished school, always had a good paying job and kids with one woman,, but I also been in high speed pursuits, flip more L's then most, but the trick was I feared my momma more than the POLICE, so when police came I ran like Jesse Owens!

If you go to jail and talk to the people in jail you will rarely, if at all, hear them say they didn't get whipped enough as a child. You may hear them many of them say they where abused or close to it. The whipping with cords is some "passed down from slavery" stuff and many of us in the communty still are in the mind frame of the colonizer.

I don't even have the heart to beat my kids with an extension cord. I felt bad having to spank my son with a belt but he needed it because he does shit every now and then that i have to get on him about. But i don't whoop him for every little thing that pisses me off. And if i do spank him, I have a limited amount of times and specific area I'll hit him with the belt. I don't just don't swing and hit him just anywhere. Mostly the hands or thighs is what I target.

We are the only ones in america that think our children need to be in line to the point that you are willing to beat them with objects....let that marinate. Its not something we should be use to. I never had to whoop my son or daughter, it's crazy it's like they just always knew I would if I really had to. I just tried to teach them all the things I knew would have made a difference had I known.

Some black parents have continued where the slave masters left off . It’s just a vicious cycle of abuse. I often wonder when/ if it will ever end. Black people took all of what their masters threw at them and used those as tools of punishment against their own. Spankings are fine to a degree, but extension cords and hot irons are way past the boundaries of acceptance. Moderation is key also.

If we really care about Black men protecting the children, using that very same logic, a lot of mothers with give full parental custody over of their child to their biological fathers and there would not be hardly any case issues of estranged stepfathers, sick uncles, strangers and rebound revolving boyfriends molesting them nor would there be an increase in child abuse cases by mostly single parent BW. As well as most Black children who do tell their fathers ,that they have been touched inappropriately automatically listen to their childs concerns, instead of doubting them, like some these mothers be doing to them,just because their new boyfriend pays the rent,lay pipe down good or pays her car notes!!!! Sorry I don’t do fake outrage when facts are facts.

It’s all a hustle and perpetuates broken homes. Win win for the system. Don’t expect anything to change.

If dads wanted kids to live with them so bad how come it's more grand parents got kids than dads? How come when mothers are messed up or in jail the kids be in foster care?

Black children, experience abuse,in some cases death,and molestation at the hands of their mother’s known acquaintances (ie boyfriends,pastors,step-fathers,and male friends). Black fathers who are involved in abuse of their child is around 22% while Black mothers involved in abuse of their child is around 70% because of the company and acquitances in who they let b around their children.

Children are sexually abused by mother’s acquittances and studied stats have been presented to you to see it for yourself,that family sexual molestation only represent 34%,while mother’s acquaintance of child abuses represent 59%!

 

 

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